May 25
Thoughts of HH Shri Bhola Nathji ( 1910-1992) Founder of the World Prayer Day for Peace
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One day you discover that someone you had dearly loved betrays you or ignores you, after years of being together.
You find yourself filled with bitterness. This soon gives way to rage, and you want to say something nasty and angry to the person. You also know that after you have vented your wrath on him he will walk away forever from your life.
Here is the best formula to control your anger at such times -- IT ALWAYS WORKS, SO TRY IT WHENEVER YOU NEED IT!!
For a moment just stop your anger and look backwards in time.
Think of the many happy moments you have spent together with the person; think of the many good things he did for you in life, think of all his past kindnesses, in fact even one great kind act, think of how he helped you when you needed help..
By the time you finish recalling all these memories of his past goodness towards you -- you will discover that your present anger at his betrayal simply disappears.
He comes before you, and you embrace him with love. A friendship or a relationship is saved!!!
Thoughts of HH Shri Bhola Nathji ( 1910-1992) Founder of the World Prayer Day for Peace
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One day you discover that someone you had dearly loved betrays you or ignores you, after years of being together.
You find yourself filled with bitterness. This soon gives way to rage, and you want to say something nasty and angry to the person. You also know that after you have vented your wrath on him he will walk away forever from your life.
Here is the best formula to control your anger at such times -- IT ALWAYS WORKS, SO TRY IT WHENEVER YOU NEED IT!!
For a moment just stop your anger and look backwards in time.
Think of the many happy moments you have spent together with the person; think of the many good things he did for you in life, think of all his past kindnesses, in fact even one great kind act, think of how he helped you when you needed help..
By the time you finish recalling all these memories of his past goodness towards you -- you will discover that your present anger at his betrayal simply disappears.
He comes before you, and you embrace him with love. A friendship or a relationship is saved!!!
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